Co-Parenting at a Distance

Co-Parenting at a Distance

For the divorced or separated parent who shares children — but not a zip code — with the other parent.

You moved for the job. They moved for the new partner. The court order specifies summers and alternating holidays and a Sunday video call. The reality is messier: the kid forgets to call, the other parent forgets to remind, you miss the school play, your child says "but at Dad's house we…" and you go quiet so they don't see you flinch. Long-distance co-parenting is a particular endurance event, and most of the advice is written for parents who live across town.

This is for the parent on the other end of the line. How to stay present without being controlling, how to handle the awkward handoffs, how to talk to your kid about why you live where you live, how to negotiate with a co-parent who is also tired and also doing their best — usually.

What's inside

1. The Particular Grief of Long-Distance Co-Parenting
2. What Kids Need From the Far-Away Parent (and What They Don't)
3. The Video Call That Actually Connects
4. Bedtime Stories Across Time Zones
5. Holidays, Summer, the Long Visits
6. The Handoff — Airports, Goodbyes, the First 24 Hours After
7. Talking to Your Co-Parent Without It Becoming a Fight
8. When Your Kid Says "But at Mom's…"
9. Birthdays, Graduations, Milestones You Can't Always Be At
10. Building the Bond That Survives the Miles

Who this is for

• You're a divorced or separated parent and your child lives in another city.
• You want practical scripts, not legal advice.
• You're tired of the goodbyes at the airport.
• You believe your relationship with your kid is worth fighting for — gently.

What you'll receive

• Full ebook — PDF + EPUB — approximately 140 pages
• Bonus: a printable "Video Call That Connects" prompt sheet by age group
• Re-download anytime. Yours to keep.

How delivery works

Your download links arrive by email within minutes of purchase. No shipping, no waiting. Read on phone, tablet, computer, or print.

A note from us

The miles don't decide what kind of parent you get to be. We hope this gives you the tools to keep showing up — softly, steadily, from wherever you are.

— Solenari Care

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